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I wrote this
article to specifically address an issue of Singles asking this Question: Help me find love. As the saying goes,
ladies first so I’ll start with the ladies. Now-a-days, we have so many single ladies due for marriage but they
are still single. Some ladies might not always agree to this but it is true. It
could be traumatic at times when a lady is going close to
30, 35. On the other hand, we have some single guys who are due for marriage but still single. Their mind Screams: Find me love. I am not talking about those who choose to be single. I am talking about those who still find it difficult to express themselves to ladies. These guys don’t show it, but they can never ask a lady out. Some have never. This could also be caused by different reasons. I find it disturbing seeing single, marriage-due ladies, while there are still single guys around; Especially the ones with closed mouth. But we all know that the pressure of marriage is usually on ladies. “It s the s”
30, 35. On the other hand, we have some single guys who are due for marriage but still single. Their mind Screams: Find me love. I am not talking about those who choose to be single. I am talking about those who still find it difficult to express themselves to ladies. These guys don’t show it, but they can never ask a lady out. Some have never. This could also be caused by different reasons. I find it disturbing seeing single, marriage-due ladies, while there are still single guys around; Especially the ones with closed mouth. But we all know that the pressure of marriage is usually on ladies. “It s the s”
This article will address the
issue of late marriage and How to find
love in both ladies and guys. I’ll be giving some tips on avoiding late
marriage in both sexes. Well, if you think you are late already. Don’t loose
hope. There is at least one guy/lady that wishes for someone like you.
TO THE LADIES – Women edu
First of all, we can’t address
the issue without noting the possible causes of Not Finding Love and Late Marriage.
Bad habit
Some ladies have
some bad habits. E.g.: Yawning in public, lack of respect for fellow human
beings, gossip, talkative nature, eating habits (especially chewing gum!). Lack
of basic training e.g.: cooking, organizing a home, managing expenses- when
I say managing expenses, I don’t mean coping with small amounts of money. I
mean the effective allocation money. Such bad habits could put off a guy
ready for marriage. On thing you need to know is that serious guys ready for
marriage look at these qualities. Any guy could be attracted to you even if you
possess all these bad habits. But a guy ready for marriage won’t be attracted.
Habits are formed by daily routine over a period of time, in which they
transform into habits. What ever habits you’ve formed today didn’t start
yesterday. You wake up by 5am everyday, it’s a habit. You brush after you’ve taken
your bath, it’s a habit. You don’t seat properly, especially when wearing
skirt, it’s a habit. Ask honest friends around you about your bad habits and adjust
today!
Bad fashion taste
Fashion is a
very dynamic subject. It is very sensitive. People tend to argue when it comes
to fashion. Why? It’s because there are different opinions about fashion. One
thing we can’t dispute is there basic principles in fashion. A lady can push
guys away by applying makeup wrongly or too much. Believe me; I’ve been scared
by some ladies. If you sweat a lot, get a deodorant. Let your perfume smell
good, but not too Conc. Don’t force yourself into a dress, and at the end of
the day, you start covering your laps with your bag or Magazine. Make up makes
ladies look prettier. But one day, the guy will see you without a makeup. What will be his thought? Makeup, but
lightly.
You can even use
ordinary lip balm in some cases. It will show your natural beauty. You can as
well apply heavy makeup, but not all the time. Because the day you don’t use
it, you’ll look strange! There are some bad combinations: e.g. color,
accessories, Shoes, bags . . . . . Let your fashion be up to date. But don’t always
be the odd one out while trying to impress others with your fashion.
Desperation
Guys could be desperate.
But it is also true that a lady might also fall into the trap of desperation, like
being too cheap. Or forcing yourself on a guy. Mounting pressure on a guy,
making yourself always visible when he’s around. If you like a guy, there nothing
wrong in making yourself spottable. You
can even raise a conversation with the guy. But don’t be all over him. You will
be taken advantage of. This will harm your dignity as a woman. Be calm, people
around you might be pressurizing for marriage. Don’t give into the pressure.
Keep your dignity.
Spends Thriftiness
Some cultures
believe that men work for women. E.g. THE
Yoruba’s. Men work for the money, the women spent it. Any man would be honored
to shoulder the responsibility of his wife and kids. But no man will be happy
with a woman who does not set the right
priorities when it comes to money. Spend wisely. Don’t buy the whole world
because you have the money. Most average income guys will run away from you.
Who needs the average income guys? The high income guys are my priority
Well, you might be lucky. But remember:
The pyramid gets smaller on the way up
Submissiveness
No one wants to be ordered around, but guys
love ladies that are submissive. You don’t have to be a slave before you
submit. You can actually make your
opinion known by silence. Please I’m not saying you should always keep silent. But
You can air your view in a respectful manner. Guys don’t like it when they are
confronted. Remember, the Man is the head but the Woman is the neck. The neck
can make the head see things in a different way. It can turn the head anywhere
is pleases. Some women don’t know the power they posses!
Others that
could prevent you from finding love
is your nature. i.e. Your Introvert Nature, or Extrovert Nature. We
all have at least one of these. They both have their Advantages and
Disadvantages. Regarding this subject, I recommend you read: Why You Act the way you do and Spirit Controlled Temperament. These
books were written by Tim Lahaye.
Coming Soon: Help Me Find Love (For The Guys)
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nice tips every girl should read.
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